Awwwweee...I remember our first date. It was a giant misunderstanding, I spit chicken down my dress and had a wardrobe malfunction. It was kind of a disaster.
Want to avoid that? I don't blame you. But hey, if he still likes you after that he must be a keeper right? Don't worry. I will let you in on how to make everything go as smoothly as possible.
1. Make sure you verify that this is actually a date. Apparently some people think "Dinner and a movie" means hang out *cough* John *COUGH* Just double check that they mean date, this will save you from the possibility of over-dressing.
2. So it really is a date right? What are you going to wear? Guys- if you are taking them to a casual (no, not fast food. I mean like a chinese restaunt or something similar in dress attire.) restruant in town (usually a safe bet), go with a casual button up and a nice pair of jeans. If it's hot and you need shorts go with something a little nicer.
Girls- Sundresses, and maxi dresses are a safe bet IF they are casual. Knee length or longer is kind of my style but you do you. You could also get away with a nice top and a pair of nice jeans. Try pairing it with flat or cute sandal/boot depending on season and weather. WHen it comes to hair don't go overboard, a sleek ponytail or leave it down, you could also opt for a messy bun to keep it casual. Makeup? I say go for whatever you usually do, but if you want to spice it up try a winged liner IF you can keep it even OR a lipgloss. Above anything esle dress comfortably, make sure your undergarments are nice, not sexy, just fit right. My bra literally fell out of my dress, If you go somewhere more fancy dress for the restaurant and play with your makeup before hand to find what you like.
3. My top tip, go see the movie first, then have dinner. I have said this for years That way if your date is a total drag and you have nothing in common, you have something to talk about, OR if you are really shy, it's a good way to break the ice since movies don't require talking!
4. RELAX. Be yourself and DO NOT do what I did. I wanted to look lady like so I ate a little bit in front of him, and when he got up I shoveled food into my mouth, only to be surprised by him when he asked what kind of ice cream I wanted from behind. This caused me to spit chicken all over myself and the table. So just eat like a normal person.
Men- if she does do something like that or anything else embarrassing, be chill about it. Either pretend not to notice, or casually brush it off, chances are she's embarrassed enough.
5. If he wants to open the door for you or pull out your seat, let him. He's being gentlemanly and it's a sweet gesture, don't do that weird thing where you get offended and act like it's rude and say "thank you". It seems obvious but I've seen girls get mad about it.
Above all, just have fun and enjoy each others company. Who knows maybe he's the one. Or maybe he's not and you know what? That's okay too! :)
-Courtney
